In a world that moves at a relentless pace, it’s easy to lose sight of what matters most is family. Between work, errands, and endless responsibilities, intentional family time often gets sidelined. Yet, in the quiet moments of shared laughter, meals around the table, and heartfelt conversations, we find something deeply restorative.

Scripture reminds us of the sacred value of rest and togetherness. God Himself modeled rest after creation: “By the seventh day God had finished the work He had been doing; so on the seventh day He rested” (Genesis 2:2). Rest isn’t laziness, it’s restoration. It’s making space to reconnect , with God, with ourselves, and with those He’s placed in our lives.

Family is God’s design. Psalm 127:3 says, “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from Him.” Parenthood is more than a responsibility; it’s a divine invitation to shape hearts and nurture souls. Taking time to simply be present with our children is not just providing for them, but playing, listening, and growing with them. This reflects God’s own Fatherly love.

Ephesians 6:4 encourages, “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.” That kind of nurturing can’t be rushed or crammed into a weekend, it flourishes through consistent, intentional presence.

As a mother of three, I’ve learned that time isn’t just something to manage this is something to intentionally give. Each of my children needs something unique from me: a listening ear, a moment of laughter, a quiet cuddle, or encouragement when they’re feeling low.

Sharing time equally isn’t always about dividing the hours perfectly, it’s about being present in the moments that matter most to each of them.

In those everyday moments; tying a shoelace, reading a bedtime story, or praying over scraped knees, I’m reminded that parenting is a reflection of how God parents us: with patience, attention, and a heart full of grace.

I am reminded, that when we prioritize rest and family, we echo the rhythms God set in place. In the stillness, we find joy. In shared moments, we find grace. And in the love of family, we catch a glimpse of heaven.

One simple but meaningful way I stay connected with each of them is through hot chocolate dates or brunch. These little one-on-one moments with just the two of us, talking about anything and everything has become sacred. Whether we’re giggling over pancakes or sipping milo, it’s not about what we’re doing, but who we’re becoming together.

Sharing time equally doesn’t mean dividing hours perfectly, this means being fully present and showing each child they are deeply seen and loved. And in those quiet, everyday moments, I catch a glimpse of God’s own tender way of parenting us.

So this week, slow down. Turn off the noise. Gather your family, rest together, and let God rejuvenate your hearts through the gift of each other.

God is Good,

Carolyne x